What’s the Definition of a Racist?

Being a racist doesn’t mean you’re a bad person.  What?? Hear me out- We’ve come to believe that a racist is  1. An individual  2. Who consciously doesn’t like people based on race  3. & who intentionally seeks to be mean to them. By this definition, when someone points out that something was racist, weContinue reading “What’s the Definition of a Racist?”

Our Police Encounter

We were parked in a McDonald’s parking lot late one night (maybe midnight?). I can’t remember where we’d been, but in that moment we were just eating our McDonald’s, enjoying some in-person, one-on-one time that’s so rare in long distance relationships. We were surprised when we saw a police pull into the parking lot withContinue reading “Our Police Encounter”